UNDERSTANDING & RESPECTING OTHERS
Culture is learned behaviors, traditions, beliefs and a way of life created by a group of people. Learning to live with and respect others’ cultures and backgrounds is important. Our world is constantly changing, and it’s filled with a variety of people that have developed many diverse cultures.
Diversity means variety. We certainly don’t have to look far to see that America is a diverse country, with many people, religions, beliefs, and languages. You can see that in the classroom, at the mall, on TV, or just walking down the street. This diversity has been around since America was discovered. America is known for its creativity and strength. Much of this comes from its cultural diversity.
Here are some elements that make up culture:
- Values and beliefs
- Communication pattern (language/dialect)
- Social relationships
- Diet and food preparation
- Dress and other body decoration
- Family traditions or customs
- View of time
- Recreation and leisure
- Economic levels
Differences are sometimes perceived as threatening. Other cultures may be very different from yours and might go against your religious or moral beliefs. However, we are often uninformed and lacking information about other cultures. This can lead to misunderstanding.
Everyone belongs to a certain culture. As Americans, we all share a national culture but we also belong to all kinds of sub-cultures. Sub-cultures are smaller groups that have their own special behaviors and beliefs. Regions of the country, social and professional groups, teams and clubs can all be subcultures. Each of these subcultures has a culture of their own and these cultures are usually accepted but there are times when we aren’t so accepting such as:
- When we have a preconceived idea about someone based on their ethnicity or where they come from
- When we judge someone just because they look different
- When we put someone down because they practice a particular religion
Remember, when it comes to various cultures we have to Learn, Respect, Honor and Celebrate the wide array of differences. Staying open and tolerant allows us to take part in the all that our cultural diversity has to offer.
Become more culturally aware by:
- Asking questions
- Doing research about other culture
- Being open-minded and tolerant
- Experiencing new things
- Volunteering with a group that is different from yours
Try not to judge others and remember:
- Cultural differences should be viewed as strengths and not as weaknesses.
- We all have more in common than we think.
- Sometimes prejudice occurs out of fear. Be informed.
- Inappropriate use of jokes–where one group is put down due to their differences–is inappropriate behavior.
- Awareness, understanding and acceptance are important . You have to be aware of your difference and be able to understand them, in order for acceptance to occur.
- Different doesn’t mean wrong.
- We should always remember that some cultural practices and beliefs go back thousands of years.
- Just because it might not be right for you, doesn’t mean it’s not right for someone else.
- Religious traditions can be difficult to understand, but they should be treated with respect. Try to learn as much as you can about an unfamiliar belief, so that you won’t accidentally insult or embarrass someone.
- So much of our distrust or fear of another culture comes from simply not knowing enough about it.
Use these activities to help work toward understanding and learning more about others:
Pick a person you don’t know very well and ask them 3 questions. Questions have to be ones that cannot be answered by looking at them or questions that you don’t already know the answer to. This helps make you aware of the differences and similarities you might not have realized otherwise.
Identify a peer with a different cultural background and get to know them.
Culture is learned behaviors, traditions, beliefs, and a way of life created by a group of people. Learning to live with and respect others’ cultures and backgrounds is important because our world is constantly changing and is filled with a variety of people that have developed a great mixture of diverse cultures.
Diversity means variety. We certainly don’t have to look far to see that America is a diverse country, with many people, religions, beliefs, and languages. You can see that in the classroom, at the mall, on TV or just walking down the street. This diversity has been around since America was discovered. America is known for its creativity and strength. Much of this comes from its cultural diversity.
Start at Home
It is important to start at home when teaching your child about different cultures, respect and acceptance. Your child looks up to you and will mirror many of your behaviors therefore, it is critical you show that you are accepting and respectful of other cultures. Children are faced with much more diversity today than we were as children and we, as parents, must be role models by educating ourselves and our children.
The easiest way to set an example for your child is simply by reacting to slurs and prejudice appropriately.
- Let your child know that discrimination against, race, religious beliefs, social class, gender, sexuality, etc. is not OK.
- Teach them that simply laughing or encouraging someone else who is acting this way, makes them just as guilty of discrimination.
- Help them understand that the problem lies with the person or people who discriminate.
- If you are open to other people, and make an effort to learn more about the different cultures, your child will most often want to do the same.